***Trigger Warning: This episode briefly discusses history of abuse***
Is love worth the risk?
In this podcast episode, Elizabeth Polinsky interviews April, a military spouse, on her experiences of taking the risk on love. We discuss challenges of military family life and infertility, as well as tips for communicating and growing closer together despite obstacles. IN THIS PODCAST
SUMMARY:
MAIN POINTS: Introduction to April: April is a military spouse, 23 yrs old, and has been married 4 years. Creating a life she loves with her husband has been one of the best things to happen. The Love Story: He was the server at a restaurant that she went to when celebrating her birthday. Her friends gave him her number and he called her. On their first date, they went running and hiking. He was three hours late to work because he didn’t want to leave their first date. She had a difficult relationship and had been in an abusive relationship prior. It was shocking how wonderful he was. She wanted to focus on the good that could be in her future instead of focusing on what had happened in her past. She made a conscious choice to invest in the relationship and move forward. You want to actively show your partner your deep vulnerabilities because most partners actually want to jump in and reassure you and provide empathy.” -- Elizabeth Polinsky
Challenges they faced over the years:
They have been trying to have another baby for 3 years and this has caused a lot of pain. It has been one of the biggest hurdles they have faced. Especially because she wants to have a baby with her husband, the right person. Not having your partner around can actually cause anxiety and depression symptoms because we rely on them for support; they are our home base for comfort and support." -- Elizabeth Polinsky
April's tips for navigating challenges:
How to navigate a relationship when there are different love languages:
(learn more about love languages here)
Book Recommendations:
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Elizabeth Polinsky is a marriage and couple therapist specializing in working with military members, veterans, and their families. Liz is located in Norfolk, Virginia, and provides online counseling services throughout Virginia, South Carolina, and Arkansas.
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Sandy Wheeler
4/4/2021 11:12:06 pm
Love this one you are doing a great job!! Comments are closed.
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The Communicate & Connect Podcast
In Communicate & Connect For Military Relationships, I provide educational tips for relationships, communication, and navigating military family life. AuthorHey, I'm Elizabeth "Liz" Polinsky and I am a marriage counselor in Virginia Beach. I provide online counseling across the states of VA, SC, AR, and NV. Categories
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